but then again...the second husband could have turned out to be nasty and a not nice to the kids.. so then I would be outta there as soon as I saw the first guy I was in love with before.
OK..NO..I am going with the story that she fell in love with the second guy, he was a great husband helping her raise the children, had a good job, always home every night being a wonderful husband and father and I would stay nice to the first guy that was doing whatever for many years and help introduce the kids to him so he could still have contact with them, and wish him well in whatever life he choose to do that most likely would be a career that would take him on the road again anyways.
There that is my final answer and I shall stick with it!
Am i missing the last "would you rather..." question or wasn't one posted?
Oh sorry, that would be my fault. I was so interested in the last question that Blue posted that I guess I thought we were on the chit chat and she was just telling us about something.
Actually even tho I answered her question I would like to pass just so someone else can put their input into the question as i would like to see someone else's take on this question too.
So disregard my answer please as I was just rambling anyways and go on with Blues question. Maybe it's just me but I find it a good question and hate to think it would just stop with my thoughts on it.....
Hope you don't mind.
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If any of you follow the comic strip Funky Winkerbean, this was something that has come up over the last few weeks. No matter what, someone loses out. I've give the background. This involves 3 characters named John, Becky and Wally. Becky and Wally started dating back in high school. Eventually they decided to get married and Wally joined the army. Becky gave birth to their child while Wally was sent to Iraq and injured in an attack. Everyone thought he was dead, but he was being cared for by a kind-hearted Iraqi family. During this time Becky starts dating John and he buys her a ring, but never gave it to her since it was the same time that Wally was found alive. Wally brought back a 3 year old Iraqi orphan to adopt and raise, also.
Shortly after that, Wally was given a notice that he had one more year to complete in the army in Iraq. Once again he was involved in an attack. He was reported dead and a year after that Becky married John. A number of years pass and one day Wally shows up alive again. He finds Becky has remarried and his kids are much older and don't remember him since they were really little when he left.
So, here's the question: What would you do if you were Becky? Would you go back to your first husband (Wally), the father of your child or stay with John, the second husband? She had no children with the second husband.
This is tough because no matter what someone will get hurt.
So, here's the question: What would you do if you were Becky? Would you go back to your first husband (Wally), the father of your child or stay with John, the second husband? She had no children with the second husband.
This is tough because no matter what someone will get hurt.
I remarried, which would mean i fell in love with hubby #2 enough to want to spend the rest of my life with him. I would hope that Wally would understand that he was assumed dead for many years & i'd be sticking by the man who i now love, but would encourage our children to get to know & love their father, as i once had.
Still thinking of how gross the state fair chocolate bacon must have been, ick...
Would you rather eat a pound of chocolate covered bacon or eat a hand full of roaches?
Thanks for the additional answer. Very short and to the point. lol I was analyzing way to much. But it threw me when it asked if you were Becky what would you do and of course there wasn't enough facts to say what Becky would do. lol But yes, I agree if it was ME I married the second time because I was in love....but I'm sure I would still have feelings for the first husband that I also married when I was in love and it didn't end because I fell out of love so that would be the difficult part. But years of raising a family, loving the second husband and growing apart from the first one that wasn't around to share the raising of the children I totally would stay with the second husband too.
LOL this actually was on my mind when I woke up. Ahhhhh I think I need to have some fun questions or stay away from those that make me think to much. lol
Oh..wait, a fun question:
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Would you rather eat a pound of chocolate covered bacon or eat a hand full of roaches?
Will the roaches be dipped in chocolate too? lol
No, I love bacon, I love chocolate, so I pick the bacon covered chocolate.
At least they are both foods that I eat, unlike a roach. eck.
OK....
You were walking in a field and tripped over a bag and found $10,000 in it.
Would you grab it and never say a word about it or..
Thanks for the additional answer. Very short and to the point. lol I was analyzing way to much. But it threw me when it asked if you were Becky what would you do and of course there wasn't enough facts to say what Becky would do. lol But yes, I agree if it was ME I married the second time because I was in love....but I'm sure I would still have feelings for the first husband that I also married when I was in love and it didn't end because I fell out of love so that would be the difficult part. But years of raising a family, loving the second husband and growing apart from the first one that wasn't around to share the raising of the children I totally would stay with the second husband too.
The first time Wally was gone he was being cared for by an Iraqi family that was nursing him back to health. If I remember right, his helicopter he was in crashed. Since the family took him in, the army assumed he was dead because there were no remains of him and how could someone survive the crash they thought. He contacted Becky as soon as he was able to and then was sent home, thinking he would be discharged from the army only to be sent back a year later to complete the year he had left.
The second time he was captured/injured, but the comic strip hasn't gone into real detail yet since it's just coming out now. I know Wally mentioned memory problems. He says that he can remember people, but has trouble remembering faces. Like he has trouble visualizing things in his head. That is from his injuries. I can't remember anymore what happened during the second attack. Maybe the vehicle he was in was attacked or a suicide bomber attacked.
So far in the comic strip Becky and Wally went to visit his grave as she explained what happened to him. Then she said she would stick with John because he was good to her. She said Wally can take the kids to spend time with them on a regular basis.
I would say the whole thing comes down to how she feels about both men in her heart. Who does she love more? Then consider how it affects the kids. It's a no win situation no matter what for someone. Who knows what's going through Wally's head right now. It's certainly a big shock for everyone and a careful decision needs to be made.
You were walking in a field and tripped over a bag and found $10,000 in it.
Would you grab it and never say a word about it or..
contact the police to try to find the owner?
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Tough question to answer, simply because if the money is from a bank robbery or something of that sort, chances are the bills are traced/marked. What if i kept them & was accused of having robbed that bank or whatever?
IF the money couldn't be traced & i had a way to know that for sure... I'd be going on vacation in a heartbeat.
If you were given a trip to the Caribbean & given a choice of who to take would you rather take 3 of your girl/guy friendsor your spouse/sig other only?
You were walking in a field and tripped over a bag and found $10,000 in it.
Would you grab it and never say a word about it or..
contact the police to try to find the owner?
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I'd contact the police that I had found some money, but not saying how much. Let me know if someone contacts them looking for it. I'd hold on to it until it is claimed by the owner. If not finders keepers. No way would I let the cops spend on themselves if no one claims it. They don't need it.
So, why would I not tell them amount? Because as soon as anyone knows the amount they are suddenly the person that lost $10,000. Only the real owner the money would know the amount so let them tell you the amount.
If you were given a trip to the Caribbean & given a choice of who to take would you rather take 3 of your girl/guy friendsor your spouse/sig other only?
My spouse since he is my best friend anyway. I love doing things with him as much as possible. Besides I don't know which friend I'd bring. Not really that close to anyone right now. So many friends have drifted apart or moved away.
Would you rather eat raw onions on your cereal or eat chocolate syrup, strawberries and mint on your hamburger?
My spouse since he is my best friend anyway. I love doing things with him as much as possible. Besides I don't know which friend I'd bring. Not really that close to anyone right now. So many friends have drifted apart or moved away.
Would you rather eat raw onions on your cereal or eat chocolate syrup, strawberries and mint on your hamburger?
I cant eat onions, they gross me out.. i'd go with the burger.
Would you rather stinky fart in a room full of people & have to own up to it & not be able to walk/run away OR be forced to stay still & smell the stinky fart of the person in that situation?
Would you rather stinky fart in a room full of people & have to own up to it & not be able to walk/run away OR be forced to stay still & smell the stinky fart of the person in that situation?
I have the ability to breathe through my mouth so that I can usually not smell anything, so I would go with being forced to stay and smell...I guess.
Scenario - you've just gotten out of the shower and the doorbell rings. You go and answer the door and your towel falls away.
Would you rather the person at the door be someone you know pretty well (and will see again) or a total stranger.
I have the ability to breathe through my mouth so that I can usually not smell anything, so I would go with being forced to stay and smell...I guess.
Scenario - you've just gotten out of the shower and the doorbell rings. You go and answer the door and your towel falls away.
Would you rather the person at the door be someone you know pretty well (and will see again) or a total stranger.
a stranger... a really hot cable guy perhaps??
You are given an all expense paid 2 week trip & you have a choice of where to spend your time. You can either go to Jamaica for 2 weeks & live it up with one fun activity after another OR You can go to New Orleans & assist in rebuilding from the Hurricane Katrina disaster... which do you choose?
You are given an all expense paid 2 week trip & you have a choice of where to spend your time. You can either go to Jamaica for 2 weeks & live it up with one fun activity after another OR You can go to New Orleans & assist in rebuilding from the Hurricane Katrina disaster... which do you choose?
Well since those are the only two places and Jamaica and not somewhere I really want to go like I would love to see Norway or England I will pick helping out. Besides I think that could be very rewarding, oh..did I mention I would still have to have my own room with a bath to stay in while I am there? lol
You come up on a woman that was giving birth and you ended up assisting with the birth. The woman then tells you that she can't keep the baby and was only going to drop the infant off at the hospital and take off but wanted you to take the child instead. She would sign a paper stating such.
Would you accept the baby and raise the baby as your own or turn her down and report her to the police?
Well since those are the only two places and Jamaica and not somewhere I really want to go like I would love to see Norway or England I will pick helping out. Besides I think that could be very rewarding, oh..did I mention I would still have to have my own room with a bath to stay in while I am there? lol
You come up on a woman that was giving birth and you ended up assisting with the birth. The woman then tells you that she can't keep the baby and was only going to drop the infant off at the hospital and take off but wanted you to take the child instead. She would sign a paper stating such.
Would you accept the baby and raise the baby as your own or turn her down and report her to the police?
Easy one...
I would take her to the hospital to drop the baby off... I would raise a grandchild if need be, but hell no i ain't raising any other babies.
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Would you rather only be able to whisper or only be able to shout for the rest of your life?
Would you rather only be able to whisper or only be able to shout for the rest of your life?
Whisper. I know a few people that talk very loud and it is very annoying so guess Whisper could be better even if many people may not be able to hear me very well.
But then, many people would hate talking to me if they can't hear me so maybe SHOUTING WOULD BE BETTER....???
I just asked my teen daughter (she is one that talks LOUD all the time) lol And she said she would take yelling. But then she said I talk softly now so it wouldn't be much of a difference but she finds people that talk soft annoying.
So guess it is an annoying thing either way.
But thinking about it I will change and take yelling only because I love talking to elderly people when I meet them and I wouldn't be able to talk to them if I whispered.
Don't you just love how I can ramble on and on as I analyze these questions?! lol lol
OK,
You woke up very late and have to get somewhere for the day. Do you risk taking your morning shower and brushing your teeth etc. and being late for sure, or do you just run out the door after throwing some clothes on real quick and not care how you look and 'smell' just so you can barely make it there on time?
You woke up very late and have to get somewhere for the day. Do you risk taking your morning shower and brushing your teeth etc. and being late for sure, or do you just run out the door after throwing some clothes on real quick and not care how you look and 'smell' just so you can barely make it there on time?
Since you said "for the day" i assume that means it's somewhere i'd have to spend the day, in which case i'd be late to look & smell presentable.
If i just had to run & give someone a ride or whatever, i'd brush my teef & run.
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Would you rather always have to take a cold shower (year around, never any hot water) or get one hour less of sleep everyday/night for the rest of your life?
Would you rather always have to take a cold shower (year around, never any hot water) or get one hour less of sleep everyday/night for the rest of your life?
I'd take the one hour less of sleep - in the past 11 years or so, I think I have had 8+ hours of sleep a couple dozen times - seriously. So, I'm used to it. What I need is some strenuous activity shortly before bed to tire me out...that and a night in the country.
Would you rather have to go to a fancy social gathering dressed like a slob or go somewhere where people usually dress modestly (like church or a funeral) wearing a very skimpy bikini (or speedos if you're a guy).
I'd take the one hour less of sleep - in the past 11 years or so, I think I have had 8+ hours of sleep a couple dozen times - seriously. So, I'm used to it. What I need is some strenuous activity shortly before bed to tire me out...that and a night in the country.
Would you rather have to go to a fancy social gathering dressed like a slob or go somewhere where people usually dress modestly (like church or a funeral) wearing a very skimpy bikini (or speedos if you're a guy).
I'd choose social gathering dressed like a slob... I wouldn't want to freak anyone out, especially at a funeral or church lol
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Would you rather always have to say everything that is on your mind out loud (even if it will offend others or cause you problems) or lose your ability to speak forever?
I'd choose social gathering dressed like a slob... I wouldn't want to freak anyone out, especially at a funeral or church lol
I doubt you'd freak anyone out!
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Would you rather always have to say everything that is on your mind out loud (even if it will offend others or cause you problems) or lose your ability to speak forever?
With losing my ability to speak, I could still communicate. Having to say everything on my mind out loud would get me slapped. So, I guess losing my ability to speak. "It's better to remain quite and appear the fool than to open your mouth and remove all doubt." (Or something like that)
Would you rather have to eat all the foods you hate to keep you alive, or have all the foods you like give you nasty gas?
Would you rather have to eat all the foods you hate to keep you alive, or have all the foods you like give you nasty gas?
Good one...
I'll take the gas with foods i love... I cant stomach foods i hate & i rather be tootin than barfing. I could always avoid foods i love when i have a date or whatever
Hmmm, sniff other's crotches or have them sniffing mine? That's tough. I would think finding clothing would be easier if you're short even if you have to shop in the children's dept. I'll go with short because I can't stand it when people ask a tall person how the weather is or how tall they are. You'd never ask a fat person how heavy they are. We have a very tall friend and it never crossed my mind to say anything about his height. All his siblings are over 6 feet tall including the girls. His brother is the tallest at 6'8".
Would you rather step on a big dead toad barefoot or step on a fire ant hill?
(I've actually stepped on a the big dead toad barefoot eeeew)
Would you rather step on a big dead toad barefoot or step on a fire ant hill?
Is it a fresh dead toad or a rotten one? lol
OK, I'm going to go with fresh and take the slide on the guts than the burn and bites of the fire ants.
What would you do, you are at a Huge Sale at a store and the one item you have been wanting is really cheap. Problem, there is no more left except the one in the person's cart next to you.
Would you rather wait until the person turns their back and snag the item out of the cart or would you rather be honest and fair and walk away even though you will be disappointed you didn't get the good price?
OK, I'm going to go with fresh and take the slide on the guts than the burn and bites of the fire ants.
What would you do, you are at a Huge Sale at a store and the one item you have been wanting is really cheap. Problem, there is no more left except the one in the person's cart next to you.
Would you rather wait until the person turns their back and snag the item out of the cart or would you rather be honest and fair and walk away even though you will be disappointed you didn't get the good price?
I'd wait till they turn away & i'd take it lol being honest
Would you rather lose all your teethe or lose all your hair?
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