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Originally Posted by Blue Baboon
All my adult life I've gotten bugged by people that feel they should tell me to have children. Some have even gotten angry with me for not having any. They then list all the reasons I should have kids that I don't even want. They feel the need to run my life for me. I can't believe the things people say sometimes. They just can't handle it that I don't want kids and won't leave it alone at that. I've had to defend my decision so many times.
I've gotten to the point that I've told people that I can't have kids just to keep from having to listen to them lecture me. I've even had people make fun of that like making fun of people that can't have kids is funny.
I can't win no matter what.
One of my former friends used to have people ask her why she only had one kid.
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JUST SAY NO! lol
who cares what they think, they shouldn't care if you have kids or not, it a matter of choice & you choose not to, good for you! Why bring kids into this messed up world right now anyway!
I love my kids & wouldn't turn back the hands of time & do anything different, but i hate that they are living in this bad economy & suffering right along with the rest of us. For some reason after raising mine and now that they are adults i truly dislike being around kids, which is why i'm having doubts about the new man in my life, he has a kid & i just prefer to date someone who has a much much older kid if at all, having been a single mom u might call me selfish, but oh well
he asked me to meet his daughter at the end of this month when she comes to stay a week with him... ugh i'm thinking i'd rather stab myself with a pointy object.
I'm on your side blue
