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[AJE]

It can happen to the best of us. You see a cute, tiger-striped kitten with white paws and green eyes, just begging for attention. Or maybe it's a gorgeous Labrador mix whose tails seems to be wagging just for you. You take one look, and the next thing you know, you're walking down the pet food aisle at the supermarket.

If you're like most of us, falling in love with a pet is easy. And no wonder! Sharing your home with a four-legged friend can be one of life's greatest joys. Dogs, cats, and other pets give us unconditional loyalty and acceptance, provide constant companionship, and even help relieve stress after a hard day's work.

Adopting a pet, though, is a big decision. So before you except a pet as a gift or get out your wallet…ask yourself some important questions, here are some examples:

*Why do I want a pet? It's amazing how many people fail to ask themselves this simple question before they get a pet. Adopting a pet just because it's "the thing to do" or because the kids have been pining for a puppy usually ends up being a big mistake.

*Do I have time to spend with my new family member? A new pet is not like a new car or computer. The dog or cat you purchase can be with you for 15 or even 20 years, which makes it a decision that's right up there with other life cycle decisions like choosing a mate or buying a house. Many wouldn’t think of animals as being sociable but they will bond with you. They are family and need constant reassurance that you’ll be there for them to comfort and love. Yes, much like a child. Companionship is very important to them, without it they can too become depressed and ill struck. This I believe is the most important question to ask before you bring home the new animal.

*What will be done if I need to go away for a while? You’ll need to find a pet-sitter, whether it’s a close friend you feel would be responsible for the pet or if you opt to hire a business. Either way is good, but regardless you must leave some important information such as medication, food, exercise and some FYI on what your pet favors or dislikes. NOTE: Always, leave enough food and water for a few days, and its best if you leave some sort of TV/Radio on while away for short durations this is done so they keep human interaction (indoor pets).

*Can I afford this pet? Realize too they sometimes get sick, just as we do, and may need medical attention. You need to consider what a veterinarian may cost during the time you care for these pets. Example I own an epileptic rex rabbit, which in the last few months have cost a few hundred dollars in Vet bills and medications. Does this animal have any bad habits, which will need to be considered? Example: I’ve had indoor rabbits in my care for almost two decades; we’ve gone through many personalities and behaviors. Some will gnaw on wood, carpet, and clothing usually because of boredom or out of anger. Some pets can be littered train while others may occasion have a mishap. You have to consider this reasoning in case you need to pet proof your home or buy replacements for damaged property.

*Can we have a pet where you live? Many rental communities don't allow pets, and most of the rest have restrictions. Make sure you know what they are before you bring a companion animal home.

*Is it a good time to adopt a pet? If you have kids under six years old, for instance, you might consider waiting a few years before you adopt a companion. Pet ownership requires children who are mature enough to be responsible. Example: In my case rabbits are delicate critters and can be hurt very easily; I wouldn’t advise young children just go off holding the cute Easter Bunny.

*Do I have enough living arrangements suitable for this animal? Animal size is not the only variable to think about here. For example, some small dogs such as terriers are very active—they require a great deal of exercise to be calm, and they often bark at any noise. On the other hand, some big dogs are laid back and quite content to lie on a couch all day. Before adopting a pet, do some research. That way, you'll ensure you choose an animal that will fit into your lifestyle and your living arrangements.


*Next, where should my pet come from? Pet Store, Animal Shelter, Gift from a friend or is it a stray? Pets, need house training, obedience training, and regular medical attention. An older animal found at a shelter, on the other hand, can be a lot calmer and may not need as much training or attention.

***Finally, are we prepared to keep and care for the pet for his or her entire lifetime? When we adopt a pet, we're making a commitment to care for the animal for his or her lifetime.

Kris10 gave some very helpful resource links. I know it’s a long list of questions. Think before you adopt. Sharing your life with a companion animal can bring incredible rewards, but only if you're willing to make the necessary commitments of time, money, responsibility, and love—for the life of the pet.